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Why people use to distract us from our aims by forcing us to do what all are doing?

Like i dont wanna do b.sc but my relatives and family friends are forcing all the time me and my parents to let me do b.sc but i think b.sc is nothing as max people who did this course are unemployed although they are making expenses by running tuitions bt i m totally not interested in teaching HELP

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Asked by Eva Rana

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Surabhi Chaudhary Engineer at Honda Cars India Limited | Guide-Level 11

8 years ago

Dear Eva. People around us find pleasure to comment on everything we do. Even if you go for B.Sc. as they want you to, they will still find something to comment on or give you unasked advices. I can say you are a strong, sane minded girl. Next time anybody force you to opt for something you don't like, just give them a big smile, praise them for their intelligence and interest in your good future and request them to see 3 idiots. Tell them B.Sc. or IAS, you will do wonders in your life and they need not worry about it. Take your parents into confidence. As long as they are with you, nobody else really matters and you can conquer the wo

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Saikiran Guttedar

8 years ago

hi eva listen to yourself always there are many people who give the advices but u havd to take your decision by your own and I am also facing the same problem so I can understand you so good luck

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Kumar Ajay

8 years ago

Dear Rana,
People Like your Parents Have much expectation from You. So that They Think Best For You From their knowledge.
But you should go with your aim.
if You don't Like B.SC don't Do it. Cause When you would do B.sc without Interest. You will Not able To focus on your subject. then you can't Get what you expect from it.
so My best suggestion you to is ignore what the parents want from you do as your mind and heart says. Proof them that you are right.
conciliate him. make your best.
hope this will help you.

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Dharmpal Barjati B.tech | Guide-Level 11

8 years ago

Hello EvaAlways take a carrier decision according to your interest. If you choose that field than you will better perform. You should convince all other and tell about your interesting field to them.
Hope this helps
thanks
best of luck

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Dr Swastik Sahu Medical & Engineering Consultant | Scholar-Level 17

8 years ago

Go in that in which you are the best. Only you knows better which field you are good in. People are there to advice guide. People themselves interested Medical will advice for medical ; and so on.
But decision should be yours.
Explorer the careers possibilities and decide the good one.

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pawan mangat | Contributor-Level 8

8 years ago

There are many obstacles in our path to success this is one of that.Don't bother about others just listen to our heart because this your life.Pray to your god and will be good.

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Allen Bhavesh I will try my best 2 help u.......... | Contributor-Level 9

8 years ago

Eva.u r not the only one who have this type of problem.there r millions of people .having same type of problem.
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Remember. It's ur life n do whatever u wants 2 do.
Don't think or cares of others opinion.
Peoples will always comment whether u do good one or bad one.
If u have interest in other thing.do freely.without caring anyone.
Now u have the time 2 change ur study field.
Bt once the time gone.u have to frustrated all over ur life .
So choose the one in which u will b happy .and don't care about others. .
It's ur life n don't let anyone 2 interfere in btw.except ur parents.

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Shashi Kant Dargar

8 years ago

this is valid in general life too not only while deciding career my dear.strengthen and be clear with courage.nothing will distract and everything what you want will be achieved

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vivek mishra who am I???? | Contributor-Level 10

8 years ago

ya I can understand your problem but sometimes they care about your self afterall they are your mentor. but if u don't want bsc then you do ba in psychology in counselling at Tiss or may be SHIATS because this major course also similar than b.sc.further info mail me at shiatspsychology@gmail. com to knows admission process.

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Shreyoshi Dutta Botany major

8 years ago

Hey! Eva. Do what your heart says you can do. Get on the option which you think of your interest and you can give your best and yes! you need to be confident. As CONFIDENCE is the second key to Success. So, do whatever you are passionate about.
P.s - If you want more examples. Watch the movie " 3 Idiots " Simple. ;)
One more thing - B.Sc is not only about the teaching proffession. It has lots many application. Choose a subject that you like and then instead of doing M.Sc in that subject you can opt to many other faculties in that option. Doing so, you won't get a teaching proffession instead you'll get a highly paid Job. Mind me, Even I

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